Tonight I ran across a blog by a woman in Australia ( found on Pat Workman's delightful site) and enjoyed her musings very much.
She wrote about the value of being curious and how this trait enriches our lives. I think scientists must be the most curious of people. Their work on research of whatever subject matter, is benefited by their curiosity to find an answer.
I think my early love of reading was born from an innate curiosity to know more than I could learn from my surroundings on a farm in Georgia. I have never lived in a large city, and I don't think I would ever want to live in a large city, but my curiosity about city life has led me to read many books and stories based in New York or Los Angeles. My curiosity about the life style of a woman there drives me to put myself in her place for a few hours. How does one live in NYC without a car? How does one take public transportation everywhere? Does she have to plan for extra time to make sure she isn't late because she can't get a taxi or misses the bus? And all that traffic - how do you handle the traffic jams when you must make your flight out by a certain time? I'm curious. What about those days when it snows? How do people get to work in all that snow?
Those questions must seem silly to one who lives or has lived in large cities, but I've heard some questions from city dwellers about rural life that seems a bit silly to me.
Just yesterday, my brother-in-law, who grew up in Chicago, listened to some of us telling about life on the farm in years past.
"My mother would just go out and kill a chicken when unexpected company arrived," I said, "and she would clean it, cut it up and fry it. She'd make biscuits and gravy and feed a car full of hungry Florida relatives."
"My mother would just go out and kill a chicken when unexpected company arrived," I said, "and she would clean it, cut it up and fry it. She'd make biscuits and gravy and feed a car full of hungry Florida relatives."
He shook his head and said, "I understand about killing a chicken, but doesn't it have to be refrigerated first before you eat it?"
Curiosity is necessary for writing, I believe. For many, many years, I've been an eavesdropper on conversations around me. I have often said to my husband, "Did you hear what that couple was talking about?"
Incredulous, he'd respond, "Of course not. Why would I want to listen to their conversation?"
That was one big difference between us. I was curious about people. He was more observant of things around him. He would remember an object hanging on a wall in an office, but I'd remember the man's facial expressions when he discussed his son's lack of interest in football.
Sometimes curiosity can over-reach into nosiness, poking into one's private business. We have to be careful there. My husband often reined me in when I'd ask questions of others that he considered too personal.
Part of my enjoyment of people is learning about their lives, what they like, dislike, where they have lived and what they find important in life. I am definitely a curious person, and maybe that is why, like the Australian lady I continue to enjoy learning. She earned her college degree after she retired at age sixty. Now she is off on a new career.
I am off on a new way of life, and I am curious as to what will develop down the road. I don't think I'll ever stop being curious, therefore, I'll not stop wanting to meet interesting people, and I'll not stop wanting to learn new things.
Glenda,
ReplyDeleteI too have been listening to other's conversations. Not usually intentionally, but, some folks talk too loud to ignore their conversations!
I had friends who lived in NYC. Shirley rode the subway, and probably a couple of buses to work each week day. She had to allow time for this, of cours, as we have to have so much travel time planned.
South Florida has had a train to Miami for 15 years, or so. I knew a couple of folks who took that train, made friends with their riding companions, and loved it!
Good luck with your journey.
Blessings,
Joan
Once again you strike a note that resonates with me. For you and me these days in particular, I suspect curiosity may be one of the things we need to keep us both just putting one foot in front of the other.
ReplyDeleteAs a native New Yorker (I do mean NYC), I'd like to have the time, money, and nerve to go back one day without my husband to see if I could still manage, more than 60 years after I left to live in the country! My last visit was about five years ago with him.
Hi Joan and JLC,
ReplyDeleteLike you, Joan, I don't intentionally eavesdrop, but often in restaurants the tables are close and you just can't help but hear the conversation going on next to you. I have picked up some characters and some other good writing ideas from overheard conversations, or bits of conversations.
JLC,
One day I want to go to NYC just to experience that big city. A younger friend said she went last year with two women and had a wonderful time. I'd certainly have to have a guide or someone to help me get around. I'd be like the girl in Oklahoma who sang "Everything's Up to Date in Kansas City." A real rube.
Glenda,
ReplyDeleteWhat a great posting. I've been found guilty of listening to conversations of people at the resturant or while waiting in line at Ingles or while in the doctor's off waiting. Sometimes I'm just plain nosey. I guess that's a characteristic of writers.
I do enjoy that blog site. Curiosity may kill cats...though I have never witnessed it. Where would this world be without discovery and insight that was prompted by simple curiosity. As you know, Glenda, I am by nature more of an observer than a participator. This is why I enjoy dinning and traveling alone.
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